Connection is the Cure: Healing with others

Connection is the cure for what ails us – this phrase may sound like a simple statement, but the truth behind it is both profound and liberating. We live in a society that exalts individualism, but what we need is the courage to admit that we need others. In the process of healing, we must recognize that being connected to a community is imperative.

The idea of finding a group of people who have had similar experiences may seem daunting, but we must summon the courage to take that first step. Brain research has shown that people heal better in groups than when they are alone. When we are connected to others who have had similar experiences, we gain a sense of belonging, which fosters emotional well-being and greater resilience.

It is vital to find people who are like-minded and moving in the same direction. Often, we find that when we are experiencing emotional dysregulation, it becomes challenging to manage our emotions, even to understand them. This can make it challenging to find the support we need to heal.

It is easy to get caught up in our trauma and pain, but connecting with others who are going through the same thing can be a great source of strength. In these moments, we see that our experiences are not unique, and we find hope in the stories of others who have been through similar situations. The journey towards healing is not a solo mission, and we must be ready to receive the support of others to move forward.

Connecting with others who have gone through a similar experiences is often a breath of fresh air. Their understanding our situation can be invaluable, and in connection with others, we find strength and support. Others can become a safe space to share our journey and draw strength from theirs.

But finding a group of people to connect with is not always easy. It requires us to overcome our fears and be vulnerable. We have to show up as we are and trust that the people we connect with will accept us for who we are.

Often, finding the right group is a trial and error process. But the important thing is to keep trying until you find the right one. In the end, you will look back and realize that it was worth it. It takes courage and bravery to seek out the support we need, but in doing so, we build relationships that will help us for years to come.

It's vital to remember that we do not have to walk through trauma or pain alone. We must summon the courage to seek the support of others, to find a connection to a community that can hold us up when we need it most. In that community, we find strength, hope, and the support we need to heal. So, the next time you feel lost in grief, pain, or uncertainty, remember that there is always a group of people waiting to connect with you, to lift you up and help you heal. Together, we can and will find the cure for what ails us - connection.
Ben Derrick

Counselor & Communicator

https://www.benderrick.com
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